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Make sure you don’t start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. Know your worth even if they don’t. Thema Davis  (via lovely—delight)

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Cut Her Off (Remix)
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K Camp Feat. Lil Boosie, YG & Too Short - Cut Her Off (Remix)

I didn’t realize how badly I was treated until someone started treating me with respect. (via foreverrwanderlust)

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For fat women, being stylish isn’t a luxury. It’s often a necessity to get hired, to get access to healthcare, to get treated like a human being.

Fat women have all kinds of narratives about sloppiness, laziness, dirtiness to overcome. Sometimes heels are a crucial part of looking “put together” in a way that sufficiently convinces people that we care about ourselves, that manages to counteract pervasive cultural narratives that fat people don’t care about ourselves. That we have “let ourselves go.”

Being “put together” is part of the way many of us convey to a judgmental world that we are worth caring about.

I get treated completely differently at a $20 hair salon if I’m dressed up or dressed down. Two totally different experiences. I get treated differently at the doctor’s office, and at the emergency room. I can’t go to the ER in sweatpants, because I’ll get shittier treatment. In an emergency, I have to worry if I am dressed up enough to prove that I deserve respect and care.

Melissa McEwan: Fat Fashion (via stainedglassgardens)

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Don’t lose hope. When the sun goes down, the stars come out…

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